Why just considering it means you’ve already started. Here is something I’ve learned: downsizing isn’t just about square footage. It’s about life, and it’s about change. Downsizing is about identity, memory, comfort, fear, and freedom. It’s about everything you’ve built in your home and everything you’re imagining for what comes next. That’s why it’s so […]
Family Dynamics & Communication
Moving a Parent With Dementia
7 Ways to Make Moving Easier for a Parent with Memory Changes When a loved one is experiencing cognitive decline, helping them sort through a lifetime of belongings and settle into a new living space isn’t just about boxes and floor plans—it’s an emotional maze, filled with logistical hurdles, unexpected emotions, and just enough drawers […]
How To Talk About the Last Few Chapters
…With Children Who Aren’t Ready To Think About It Let’s face it—no one really likes to talk about the last chapters. Not when you mean the chapters in your life that include big decisions about where you live, how you live, and what you leave behind (both emotionally and materially). However, you, my wise and seasoned […]
When Roles Reverse: A Guide to Having the Aging Conversation With Your Parents
There are some conversations in life that feel impossible to start. Talking to your parent about aging—their health, safety, and the future—can feel like one of them. It’s delicate, emotional, and, let’s be honest, a little scary. After all, this is the person who raised you, who seemed invincible when you were a child. But […]
Stay in Control: How Thoughtful Communication Protects Your Independence
Throughout our adult lives, we make decisions independently—and we like it that way. A future where someone else may need to assist in the decision-making process isn’t always pleasant, but having important conversations before that time comes is critical to making sure your wishes are honored. Start by asking yourself: If I reach a point […]
9 Reasons to Serve Peanut Butter Pretzels in a Waterford Bowl
Last night we had some friends over for snacks and drinks before heading to a concert. I told everyone, “We aren’t having anything fancy, just a quick snack.” I had planned to serve cheese, crackers, chips, and homemade salsa because we wouldn’t be hanging around long. One friend showed up with a Ziploc bag of […]
